Getting ready for school can be exciting, but it can also be overwhelming. Buying school supplies, planning breakfasts, and packing lunches are a lot of work.
There can also be strong emotions during the transition. Parents might not be excited about the structure and routine school requires. Kids may be anxious, making them more irritable or sensitive than usual.
While parents can’t take all the stress out of the transition, they can help ease it when they have a plan. If they can keep their stress under control, the kids will feel it. A parent’s calm demeanor can set the tone in the home.
If you have a child heading back to school, check out these ideas to help you start the year strong.
School supplies
My kids love picking out their folders and binders at the store. However, at times, it can be stressful. School supply lists have gotten long and stores can be crowded. If going to the store doesn’t sound fun, consider shopping online.
Target's School List Assist makes online shopping simple. Follow this link, put your zip code in the box, choose your child's school/grade, and a list of needed supplies will appear in your cart. You can switch things out, so your kids can still choose their styles.
Backpack
Make the straps on your child’s backpack snug so that it doesn’t create an unnatural forward posture which puts a heavier load on the neck and shoulders. Encourage them to use both straps so the body doesn’t shift to compensate.
The weight of a full backpack should be less than 10-15% of the body weight of the person carrying it, so don’t overfill it. Putting the heaviest items closest to their body will adjust the center of gravity closer to their back; this makes the backpack feel lighter. If your child starts to complain about pain, bring their backpack with them to their next visit. We can work together to find a solution.
Breakfast
Here are some great recipes to make in advance.
- Plantain Casserole or Mexican Casserole
- Ham and Egg Breakfast Cups or Avocado Breakfast Cups
- Paleo Blueberry Pancakes or Banana Two Ingredient Pancakes
- Sweet Potato Skillet
- Banana Bread/Muffins
- Homemade yogurt topped with fruit and nuts (or use plain Greek yogurt)
Another option is to grab any protein, healthy fat, and non-starchy vegetables. It makes a complete nutritious meal. Be creative, and remember that breakfast doesn’t have to look like breakfast; leftovers work just fine!
Lunch
Typical lunches have high sugar and carbohydrate levels (i.e. bread, crackers, chips, cookies, pop, juice boxes, candy, etc.). They cause a blood sugar spike followed by a sudden blood sugar crash that leaves them feeling rotten.
Instead, choose a quality protein and fat. This will help maintain energy and focus all day. Here are some ideas…
- Sliced avocado wrapped in nitrate-free lunch meat
- Breadless sandwiches
- Guacamole and veggies
- Hard-boiled eggs
- Homemade soup
- Chicken, tuna, or egg salad (made with avocado oil mayo)
- Salad (with homemade ranch dressing)
- Leftovers
Sides could include a handful of nuts, apple and nut butter, unsweetened dried fruit, Lara bars, homemade muffins, quality cheese, full-fat yogurt, unsweetened applesauce, Paleovalley beef sticks, smoked salmon, homemade fruit snacks, or coconut bombs.
Routines
New routines take time to establish. A good morning routine starts the night before, so allow enough time in the evening to prepare for the next day. This is tricky because you also want to get the kids to bed on time without the harsh words stress can bring.
Different things will work for different families. Maybe your kids can pack their lunch or you could make it while dinner cooks. Perhaps your family would benefit from having an area where backpacks and shoes are always kept.
Even with the best of planning, giving yourself plenty of time in the morning is important. It will take some stress out of your morning routine and set your kids up for a great day of learning.
Give your kids, and yourself, lots of grace during this transition. And, remember, it is tough for most of us!
Dr. Jamie