It is a time to celebrate love, but it doesn’t have to be the romantic kind. Whatever your relationship status, you deserve to have a great Valentine's Day.
In recent years, the popularity of “Galentine’s Day” makes it easier to focus on the relationships that you do have. There has also been a push to love yourself and recognize the need for self-care.
Here are some fun treats whether you are celebrating yourself, your friends, or your significant other.
Yummy Treats
Coconut fat bombs are delicious sweet treats without all the sugar and processed ingredients found in most boxed chocolates! My sister, Joelle, introduced me to them years ago. I love them!
Ingredients:
- 2½ c. unsweetened shredded coconut
- 1 t. vanilla
- ⅛ t. cinnamon
- 1 pinch of nutmeg
- ½ c. coconut oil (melted)
- 2 T. cocoa powder (optional)
- almonds, walnuts, or other nuts of choice
Directions:
- Blend the unsweetened shredded coconut in a food processor with the vanilla, cinnamon, and nutmeg.
- When it starts to form a butter, pour in the melted coconut oil. Continue to blend until smooth.
- Put half the mixture into silicone molds.
- Mix 2 tbsp of cocoa powder in the remaining half (this is for the chocolate ones)
- Pour this mixture into another set of molds.
- If you would like to add some nuts to either mixture, it can be a nice touch.
- Throw them in the fridge and let them harden up
- Enjoy!
*This recipe was adapted from the RESTART Cookbook by Jeni Hall, NTP. You can also find great recipes on Joelle's blog From Scratch Farmstead.
Gifts Ideas
We want those we celebrate (including yourself) to feel special. Sometimes this includes getting a gift for someone hard to shop for. In that case, an experience is a great alternative to a traditional present. Consider getting them a/an…
- ticket to a sporting event
- manicure/pedicure
- foot, back, or full-body massage
- ticket to a show at a local theater
- Spotify gift card
- store membership (Costo, Sam's Club, etc.)
- escape room experience
- ax throwing experience
- coupon for watching their kids
- coupon for making them dinner
- weekend away
- cooking class
- sip and paint night
- craft class (pottery, macramé, etc.)
- trip away through extra airline miles
- membership to the Morton Arboretum
Celebrations
If you are going out to dinner, be sure to get your reservations now! But, while eating out is a nice option, something creative might be even more special. Think about what your loved one(s) would enjoy the most.
- have an indoor picnic
- make coconut bombs (see recipe above)
- go cross-country skiing
- play in the snow
- watch a movie
- sit by the fire reading
- discuss some of these questions
- journal about one of these prompts
- have a game night
- do some art
- go stargazing
- take a class (cooking, painting, etc.)
- enjoy some physical activity (indoor rock climbing, pickleball, bowling, etc.)
- do a puzzle
- make a scavenger hunt
- go out dancing
- do karaoke
- see a theater production
- start a new tradition
*For more ideas check out Affordable Valentine's Day Ideas.
I hope these suggestions will encourage you to celebrate yourself as well as others this Valentine’s Day!
Dr. Jamie
*I earn a small commission on qualifying purchases as an Amazon Associate.
If you want to improve your sleep and feel better during the day, an Oura Ring can be a great tool. Its advanced sensor technology provides personalized sleep and health insights based on the most reliable source - your body.
The information that my Oura Ring provides, helps me identify things that impact my sleep. It not only shows me the specifics of my sleep quality but also leads me to understand the changes needed for a better night’s sleep.
I have been using this device for almost 3 years. I use the insights gained on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis to make sure that my body is feeling great and to improve my overall health.
When I listen to these findings and make adjustments to my life, I wake up feeling more rested. It results in more energy and mental clarity which sets me up for a better day. This helps me care for myself and others more effectively.
I chose the Oura Ring over other wearable devices because of its accuracy in sleep detection, but I also use it for paying attention to my movement and my basal body temperatures for fertility tracking.
Let’s take a brief look at why sleep is important. Then we will take a look at this technology and what insights it provides.
Why Sleep is Important
You might intuitively know that you feel better when you are well-rested. Sleep is crucial for mood, energy, and stress tolerance. It is difficult to concentrate and react quickly when you are groggy. The pathways in your brain that let you learn and create new memories are dependent on sleep.
Sleep is also essential for the basic repair of the body. This includes the neurological, endocrine, immune, musculoskeletal, and digestive systems. Studies suggest that sleep also plays a housekeeping role in removing the toxins in your brain that build up during waking hours.
For more on the importance of sleep and how to get the quality rest you need, check out our blogs…
Measuring Sleep Quality
The Oura ring uses advanced sensor technology to measure your resting heart rate, heart rate variability, temperature, and respiratory rate. Its associated app tracks this data and uses it to assign three simple scores that answer questions about your health.
- How ready are you for the day? - Your "readiness score" provides a picture of your overall health and can signal when your body is under strain. You can use this score to track how your daily habits affect your wellness and make any necessary changes.
- How well did you sleep last night? - Your "sleep score" shows the quality of your sleep by measuring the length of time you were in bed, how fast you fell asleep, how long you were in each stage, as well as how much you tossed and turned during the night. This information can help you see trends and show you how caffeine, exercise, or screens affect your sleep.
- How well are you balancing your activity and rest? - Your "activity score" shows if you were sedentary that day, but also helps you gauge if you got enough recovery time. It looks at your activity goals, training frequency, time spent exercising as well as the number of rest days.
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Did you know that there are hormone-disrupting chemicals that may predispose people to obesity? Would you believe these chemicals are common in our homes today?
While most people think obesity is caused by consuming more calories than are burned, there is more to the story. Hormones play a large part in maintaining a healthy weight, so avoiding chemicals that interfere with them is key.
Even if you are not concerned about losing weight, do you really want chemicals messing with your hormones? For most of us, the answer is an emphatic no.
Let’s take a look at obesogens and how to avoid them. I promise not to get too technical on you!
What are Obesogens
Obesogens are chemicals that interfere with the endocrine system and disrupt regular hormone activity. This impacts your metabolism, energy levels, fat storage, as well as many other crucial functions of the body.
There are about a thousand of these chemicals used in commerce today. The most common are…
- Bisphenol-A (BPA)
- Phthalates
- Atrazine
- Organotins
- Perfluorooctanoic Acid (PFOA)
Where Obesogens Are Found
Most products have an ingredient list, but with a thousand endocrine-disrupting hormones used in manufacturing today, it is impossible to keep track of all of them.
The "Think Dirty - Shop Clean" app is designed to help you identify how products measure up. You simply type the name of your home or beauty product into the app, and it will give you a rating on how toxic the product is. For some products, you can even just scan the barcode.
The Environmental Working Group website is another great place to learn about toxins in water, food, and personal products. Try plugging in a few of your commonly used products to see their rating.
Some places you may want to watch out for are…
- Body products - shampoo, soap, perfume, makeup, nail polish, lotion
- Cleaning supplies - detergent, dryer sheets, air fresheners
- Food - processed food, seafood, microwaveable meals, food stored in plastic
- Drinks - canned drinks, tap water
- Household products - non-stick pans, plastic containers, stain-repellant
What to Do
It can be quite overwhelming to discover all the products that contain obesogens. We need to remember that there is no perfect way to handle this. If we try to limit all exposure, it will be next to impossible. Chances are the anxiety created from this attempt will be worse for your health than minimal exposure.
Do the best you can to make reasonable changes over time. You may need to get creative if cost is a factor; perhaps you can go to a thrift store or request the products you want for a gift.
Where to Begin
If you need a place to start, follow the suggestions below…
- Wash your hands - use a good hand soap to rinse off any residue of endocrine disruptors.
- Get rid of plastic - use glass or stainless steel containers (water bottles, food storage). Bring cloth bags when you shop, and focus on getting wooden or cotton toys.
- Replace nonstick cookware - opt for cast iron, ceramic, glass, or stainless steel.
- Eat real food - choose fresh meats and produce rather than food made in a factory.
- Purify your water - use a water filtering system, and store the water in glass jars.
- Clean your home - vacuum and dust frequently to reduce particles in the air. Use non-toxic products to clean your home.
If this information is overwhelming you, take a breath. We aren’t striving for perfection just to walk towards healing step-by-step.
Dr. Jamie
P.S. Ask me about the locally made, non-toxic products we carry from "A Dirty Hoe."
In the process of pursuing your resolutions, don’t forget the basics. You may be focusing on moving more, increasing your protein, or eating more vegetables. These goals are great, but they will not have the results you want without a solid foundation.
Make sure you are getting enough hydration, reducing your stress, and sleeping well. And be sure to keep chiropractic care in your routine, because there are many benefits to regular adjustments even if you are not in pain.
Let’s look at some of the benefits of chiropractic care and why it is especially important this time of year.
What is Chiropractic Care
Traditional Chiropractic care involves adjusting or mobilizing joints in the body. This can be done in the spine, neck, and other joints such as the hips, wrists, and feet. It is done to help correct biomechanical imbalances, alleviate pain, and restore normal body function.
Along with traditional adjustments, I utilize the Active Release Technique (ART). It is a therapy that treats soft tissues such as muscles, ligaments, tendons, fascia, and nerves. Its main purpose is to break up scar tissue, adhesions, trigger points, or “knots”. It can also successfully improve circulation, release entrapped nerves, and improve the flexibility of the muscle and surrounding fascia.
While chiropractic care is highly beneficial for pain relief, there are many other reasons that it is valuable for everybody. The positive impact it has on the immune system might be the most compelling reason to prioritize chiropractic care this time of year.
Regular Chiropractic Care & the Immune System
Since the early 1900s, there has been evidence that regular chiropractic care has a positive effect on the immune system. It is believed that this is because of the link between the nervous system and the immune system.
One of the early studies, done by researchers in Davenport, Iowa, looked at death rates during the Spanish Flu epidemic. The findings were astounding. Out of 93,590 patients treated by traditional medical doctors, 6116 died. Simply put, that is one out of every fifteen patients. However, out of the 1635 patients at the Palmer School of Chiropractic, there was only one death.
A study published in 1987 found those who had regular chiropractic care for five years had 200% greater immune competence than the general population. This study was led by Dr. Pero, Ph.D., chief of cancer prevention research at New York’s Preventive Medicine Institute and professor of medicine at New York University.
When discussing these findings Pero stated, “When applied in a clinical framework, I have never seen a group other than this chiropractic group to experience a 200% increase over the normal patients. This is why it is so dramatically important. We have never seen such an improvement in a group.”
Other Benefits
In addition to the impact on the immune system, researchers are looking at many other factors. Some of the following benefits may surprise you and cause you to think of a loved one who is suffering from one of the ailments.
- Sciatica Pain - a randomized double-blind trial compared active and simulated manipulations at the Sapienza University of Rome. They found that 28% of participants treated by a chiropractor reported being pain-free at the end of the trial. In addition, a significant reduction in the use of painkillers was found, and 55% of patients reported no further sciatica symptoms.
- Migraines - A systematic review of randomized clinical trials found evidence that chiropractic spinal manipulative therapy (CSMT) helped manage the intensity, frequency, and duration of migraines. It was also noted that “over-the-counter medication was reduced from baseline to 4 weeks post-treatment with 55% in the CSMT group."
- Blood Pressure - The authors of a study published in the Journal of Human Hypertension showed that a specific spinal adjustment can significantly reduce blood pressure in those with hypertension who have a misalignment of the Atlas of the spine. The results were seen after one adjustment and lasted up to eight weeks.
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After the holidays many people struggle with the post-holiday blues. It makes perfect sense when you think about it. If you had a good holiday, it is hard to move on from the joy you felt. On the other hand, if it was a difficult holiday there may be some grief to process.
Take a minute to notice how you are feeling after the holidays. Are you struggling with depression? Is there a feeling of emptiness or loneliness? Do you understand where those feelings are coming from?
Knowing these things can help you care for yourself by making a plan for these difficult weeks. If you notice the feelings you can take a proactive approach that may lessen the intensity of these emotions
Let’s take a look at the reasons you might experience the post-holiday blues and what you can do to combat it.
Reasons You May Feel Sad
People may feel sad for a multitude of reasons during and after the holidays. Identifying what impacts you can guide your action plan. Here are some things that may be difficult for you.
- Burnout - the stress of the season can lead to burnout. When you work hard to make the holiday special you can be left feeling depleted of energy and joy.
- Family conflict - the holidays can highlight conflict in a family. Discussing certain topics at the dinner table can be risky and you may feel pressure to be around people you would otherwise avoid.
- Disappointment - there can be a sense of grief if the holidays are less than satisfying. Maybe you worked hard to make it special for others and nobody did anything special for you.
- Loneliness/Grief - being without the people you love can be especially painful during the holidays. If you have lost a loved one the holidays often amplify the grief. Not having close friends or family near you can also leave you feeling alone.
- Dread - going back to the daily grind is rough. You may have taken time off work and now it’s time to go back to the mundane.
- Anticipation - the anticipation of the holidays creates excitement. Without that to look forward to, winter can feel really long.
How to Combat It
Once you identify the underlying cause of your sadness you can figure out ways to ease it. Take these thoughts as a springboard to create an action plan that will work for you.
- Relax - the craziness of the season is over, so take some time to relax. It’s okay to do nothing after doing so much.
- Selfcare - find something that brings you life. Think about what you want to do, not what you think you should do. There is not only one right way to do self-care.
- Connection - you may have enjoyed the connections you experienced through the holidays. Make a point to continue those connections. Schedule time with friends, call loved ones, text or video call someone out of town.
- Anticipation - what can you look forward to that will bring you joy? If there isn’t already something you are anticipating, create one and put it on the schedule.
- Common experience - knowing that you aren’t alone in your difficult experience can be strangely comforting. Remember that this is a very common experience, and you are not alone in it.
- Dealing with difficult emotions - unpleasant emotions don’t disappear when we ignore them. Learning how to work through difficult emotions in a healthy way is the best way to open yourself up to positive emotions.
- Gratitude practice - feeling gratitude floods our brain with the feel-good hormone dopamine. (Check out the blog Holding on to Gratitude)
Consider Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Severe cases of “the winter blues” may be seasonal affective disorder (SAD). If you have it you are not alone; an estimated 10 million Americans have been diagnosed with it.
A thorough evaluation for SAD generally includes a physical exam, psychological evaluation, and lab work. It can be tricky to get this diagnosis because the symptoms overlap those of other mental health issues.
The good news is that treatment is available. It may include light therapy, medication, and a good therapist. Please don’t suffer alone. Talk to me at your next appointment and ask for some resources.
Let me know if you try any of these ideas or if you have some suggestions of your own. I’d love to hear them.
Dr. Jamie
It’s resolution time, and many people have high expectations of themselves. Self-improvement is great, but are you able to be kind to yourself in the process? It’s time for a quick check before we get too far into the year.
Is your goal making you push yourself too hard? What are you telling yourself in the process? Do you have a balance between challenging yourself and accepting yourself where you are today?
Let’s look at how we treat ourselves during this time of New Year's resolutions and explore how being kind to yourself may help you achieve your goals.
Pushing Yourself
Many people have the habit of pushing themselves too much. They have high goals and want to achieve them quickly. To do so, they don’t give themselves the rest and recovery time needed.
Success is often dependent on long-term change. Accepting your limits will allow you to achieve your goals with more peace. This can help you persevere so you will have lasting success. And think about it, our goals are made to bring us more joy. What’s the point of letting them rob us of joy in the process?
Speaking to Yourself
We don’t tend to be very kind to ourselves with our words. Ask yourself honestly what you say to motivate yourself. Is it encouraging or harsh? What about when you disappoint yourself? Speaking to ourselves kindly makes a huge difference in our experience.
Positive feedback is more effective with children; why should it be any different for us? Researcher Ayelet Fishbach explains, “Several motivational theories attest that positive feedback is more effective for motivating goal pursuit than negative feedback because it increases outcome expectancy of the goal… (and) increases people’s confidence.”
Accepting Yourself
It can be tricky to find the balance between working towards change and accepting ourselves. Our identity tends to get caught up in whether we are achieving our goals. Self-acceptance provides a clear sense of one's abilities and achievements, while also accepting one's limitations.
Coming to our goals through the lens of self-acceptance is important for both our mental and physical health. Research has found a correlation between self-acceptance and mood. Another study found that self-acceptance decreased mortality risk by 19% and added three years of life, even when other factors were accounted for.
Aren't most resolutions designed to give you a more fulfilling and longer life? Of course, they are, otherwise, they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. Don’t wait to accept yourself until you meet a certain ideal. You are worth loving as you are without any exceptions. For more on self-acceptance, check out this article from Better Health.
Think about the people in your life who inspire you the most. Chances are they are kind and accept you for who you are. Most likely, they encourage you instead of tearing you down. So, let me ask you, are you that kind of friend to yourself?
Dr. Jamie
